The hurts, arguments, and slights that have wounded and formed divisions over the years still restrain and impede the ease and joy that family interactions and gatherings are expected to evoke. Chasms of misunderstanding have separated parents from children and children from parents. Sometimes adult children or siblings are holding on to grudges possibly while using distancing behaviors and yet, the egregious deed has been forgotten by one or more members of the family, or perhaps the “offender” does not even know what they have done to cause the separation.